Cremation is the process of reducing a body to ash and bone
fragments through the process of high heat. Once cremated, the
remains or “ashes”, can then be buried, placed in
a niche, sprinkled, or any other number of things.
Many times, there is a ceremony of some kind
to commemorate the death. This can be accomplished by having a
traditional funeral service where the body is present using a
rented or purchased casket followed by cremation; or a memorial
service, where the ceremony takes place without the body present.
In either event, the service provides a public place and time
for the family and friends to openly grieve. It also provides
a time to share stories and remember. This community expression
of grief is very important, as it lays the groundwork for the
bereavement process.
It is most helpful if the family can be participants
by personalizing the service. Offering special readings, poems,
and music is helpful. Displaying pictures and momentos is helpful.
Deciding what to do with the ashes afterwards in a way that commemorates
the deceased’s life is helpful. These facets can be combined
with a religious service. Most clergy are very happy to consider
family involvement. |